We should expand the circle of love by thinking all is God.
From the book Living Gita my father's diary
My father’s feelings...
Oh Messenger of the Pandavas. You, the One who balanced the
scales, Oh pure One, Narasimha, take me on the correct path. Sri Ranga, You are
the compassionate one, around whom the Kaveri River flows. Sri Rama worshipped
You, You take me to Your lotus feet. Oh Kanna, You are my refuge, Sharanam
Sharanam. I am always suffering as I am concerned for others, though they are
unconcerned about me. You remove all my suffering. I have no wisdom and am
merely talking. I am like a dog. Give me wisdom of the Self. Do not make me
suffer for those who are alive or who die. If I have wisdom, then I would not
worry about them. All who are born will surely die; when I die take me to Your
lotus feet.